Sunday, August 25, 2013

Guest Blogger: Christina Barlow


This blog was written by my friend Christina that was on our youth mission trip from RidgePoint Church.  I love her heart and I loved the many times we got to chat this week about life in the DR and our own lives.  I really didnt know her before the trip but I knew God was working on her heart in the DR and I was honored to talk with her a bunch about it.  Here is what she had to say:  

Phyllis asked me to write a blog about my trip to the Dominican Republic.  I’ve never wrote a blog before and when I journal I tend to ramble, so this should be very interesting. :)
Every time a mission trip was announced at church I wanted to go.  I’ve just always let the fear of going take over and never followed through.  This time was different because it was youth oriented and since I’m a youth leader I wanted to go even more. Plus, when I was unsure if I was going or not, Beth was always there to push me along. I waited until the beginning of July to apply for my passport, which was not very smart! (If you don’t have one and you plan on going on a trip like this, take my advice and please get your passport way in advance) :)
Saturday started a week of a lot of 1sts for me. We made it to the airport, checked all our luggage with plenty of time to spare. Since I am a procrastinator my seat on the plane was not with my group. I was completely by myself. I was much calmer than I thought I would be, since I had never flown before.  I did learn on my trip home how to use the air vent and recline the seat on the plane. Woohoo!!
Sunday morning we all got ready for church.  I’ve never experienced anything like this before.  Church there is so simple.  Church was held in Pastor Ivan’s house, they brought in plastic chairs and made rows for everyone to sit in.  There is not enough room for everyone so they had the windows and doors open for others to look in to see and hear what’s going on. There was a white sheet type material tacked to the wall so the lyrics to songs and Bible verses could be projected on it. I have to say this is one of the first times I really seen that you don’t have to have the best of anything for God to show up.  He was definitely present Sunday morning.  After the message was over everyone held hands in a circle and prayed. After church, us girls, went to Phyllis’s house and met with the ladies to make jewelry.  We sorted beads and more beads.  We made bracelets, necklaces and earrings.  This was more difficult then I first thought it would be.  I believe I had to redo mine several times before it was right.
So this was my first full day there and one of the things that stuck out the most to me was the traffic there is CRAZY.  The line in the road is merely a suggestion.  Just about everyone rode on motos.   If you had a baby, it's ok, just put your arm around them to make sure they don’t go anywhere (and we worry about infant seats here! LOL).
Monday started our week of sports camp.  (Camp was Mon-Thurs 2:00 – 4:30 and Fri 9:00 – 11:30)  I wasn’t really sure what to expect. When we arrived at the gym, the kids in the barrio where the gym was located started coming up a few at a time. Naomi had to teach me how to tell them to come back at 2pm.  After our 1st bus load got there it was pointless to tell the other kids to come back at 2pm. They all greeted me with a smile, but to see them talk to Phyllis, Kathy and Naomi made my heart smile. I’ve never wanted to learn Spanish before but it is my goal before my next trip to at least know the basics. I want to know what these kids are saying to me. By the second or third day I was being greeted with not only a smile but hugs and a kiss on the cheek.
The group I was in was red and the kids were 8 and 9 year olds.  I had no idea what we were going to do with them.  By the end of the week we learned they loved to jump rope, play catch and when I say play catch we used little plastic orange cones and a tennis ball.  We held the cones upside down and caught the ball with the cone and then tossed it to the other person the same way. Our kids here in the US would think we were crazy if we wanted to play catch like that with them. They loved to play any game that involved water.
One of the most challenging parts was not being able to communicate the way I wanted to. Some of these kids had no idea what structure is.   Lines, forget straight lines we were just shooting for lines. The little girls loved to play with your hair, at any given time we could look over and Taylor would be sitting on the bleachers with at least 5 little girls all around her braiding her hair.
Side note ~ JJ put together a daily devotional pack from the time we met about the trip until the day we left for our trip.  One of the days was to write out our testimony.  I have to say I pouted about this. It was a reality check for me. I sat and talked with Beth about it one Sunday and then I got myself together and did it. 
JJ asked for someone to share their testimony each day of sports camp. I wasn’t going to volunteer, even though I had mine together and had practiced it a few times. But then he asked who had theirs ready (or something like that) well there it was, not who wanted to but who had it ready. So Friday, completely out of my comfort zone I stood before all the kids and gave my testimony.
Most of the kids where so sweet, they really just wanted someone to either listen to them or play with them and I was there to do both, even if I had absolutely no idea what they were saying.
Friday when it was time to say good bye, I found it really hard. Once we made it back to our room for the night I had to take some time to just reflect.  These were kids that I was there to help by showing them how Jesus loves and I think they taught me more than I even knew.
In our down time during the week, we got to do all sorts of stuff.  We went on a hike to the waterfalls; I learned I was way out of shape.  A huge thank-you to Naomi and Kathy for not leaving me behind.  I jumped from a rock that I was sure my legs were too short to clear but I did it anyways.
One day we went whitewater rafting. I’m pretty sure my butt is still bruised from getting down so fast so many times. At different points I think Belinda and I had a Jacuzzi going on while Luke and Josh paddled. This was so much fun, another 1st for me.
A couple days we went to two different Barrio’s to hand out information on Human Trafficking.  We split up into group and went different directions.  The first house we went to Luke walked in and turned around and told us to come on.  I was nervous about walking into people’s houses.  But I knew we were there to do work and that God was with us, so we were going to be fine.  When we made it back from handing out papers, I needed time to process everything I had just seen. Nothing can prepare you for it. I know it’s not as bad as the trash dumps that some have visited but this was my first time and it broke me. I wanted to cry while we were standing there.  I talked to Phyllis about the stuff that “I” take for granted all the time.  The little stuff:  sturdy walls; complete roofs; bedroom doors; windows that work; washing machines that you put your dirty clothes in add soap, close the lid and push start, then come back and throw them in the dryer etc.  At some point I was talking with Beth and tears started flowing. Our RPC’ers that live there gave up everything to move there and share God’s word and show these people what his love looks like. They sold everything and moved. What is it exactly that I do….there’s a lot of things I could be doing that I don’t, not because I can’t but because I choose not to.
The second Barrio that we went to things were about the same.  We went out into the barrio two different times before we left and the second time we met a Haitian guy that teaches Haitian kids whose parents do not have the money to buy uniforms to send them to school.  He got FIGHT’s information and they will be going to meet with the parents of those children sometime in the future to teach them about Human Trafficking.
During the two days in the Barrios I seen kids from the sports camp and they were still just as friendly as when they walk through the doors at the gym.
For me this trip was fun, emotional, tiring and completely out of my comfort zone.

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